What are you missing in your life?

What is it that you pray for that hasn’t shown up yet?

Are you looking to the people in your life to provide you with what you want?

I’ve been reading the book, “Working With the Law”, by Raymond Holliwell.  This book very plainly explains that God is the source of everything that you could ever want in your life. 

You spend your days wishing and hoping for a change and it never seems to come.  You want more money, a loving relationship, a healthy body.   You ask your friends, neighbors, and families for help. 

You are asking the wrong person.  You need to first ask God for help.  God is the source of abundance in every area of your life.  The universe will shift to bring you anything that you ask for.  You need to understand AND believe that all goodness comes from one source.  It just comes through other people.

When you ask God for help, you need to let go of the outcome.  You won’t know where the answer will come from, but it will come.  God has the power to send you something even better than you even asked for.

Stop trying to control everything.  Believe in magic.  Let go and let God.

“…not enough money is not the issue.  Having the courage to give your highest gift is the issue.” ~ Neale Donald Walsch

This morning I read this quote on Twitter.  It totally struck me because it is the truth I see in me.  Over the years, when I have felt as though I haven’t had enough money, it wasn’t because I didn’t know what to do or how to create it.  It was because I let my fears and insecurities stand in my way. 

Each and every one of us has a gift to share with the world.  It is our God-given gift, our life purpose.  It is the one thing that makes you unique.  It is the REAL you.

I think that this piece of you that makes you special can also make you feel vulnerable.  Many times we wear masks through-out the day.  It is the mask of who you think you need to be for your friends, boss, family, and even society. 

The mask is worn to protect us from our fears and our insecurities.  For me it was the fear of humiliation and embarrassment.  I was afraid that no one would like the real me.  I was afraid that I would be laughed at and that no one would want to hear what I had to say.

I want you to take the mask off.  I want you to explore who you really are.  I want you to get in touch with what your unique message is. 

Today I want you to be courageous.  I want you to be brave.  I want you to show up in the world as the real you.  The world is waiting for your message. 

So, if it’s really true that you can have it all, do you?  Are you living the life that you dream about?  Is your life all that you have ever hoped for?

I know that each and every one of you has secret thoughts that you don’t tell anyone about.  There are things that you hope for and even long for.  I know this about you because I have them too. 

I spend a good portion of the day thinking about the life that I want.  It is the life that I am creating right now.  But I often wonder, “why don’t I have it yet”? 

Obstacles in Your Way

Most of the time when you want something that you don’t yet have, there is something standing in your way.  In order to have it all, you need to make room for the goodness to come. 

Most of the time, this means you need to let go of something first.  It could be as little as letting go of the way you think, feel, or act.  It might be that you need to let go of a fear.  It could be something bigger like letting go of a job you hate or a relationship that isn’t working.

Break Free

I say that these are little things to do, but often they FEEL ENORMOUS.  It means stepping out of your comfort zone.  It means growing.

The reason that you don’t have the life you want is because you need to grow in order to attain it.  If you continue to resist the growth, you will forever be stuck. 

Learn to embrace change.  Learn to love living on the edge.  Learn to appreciate the uneasy feeling you get when you are changing.  It is all leading to the beauty of your perfect life.

 

Most of the time you hear, “Seeing is believing”.  But today I want to talk about the opposite, “Believing is seeing”. 

I do pride myself in the fact that I do have FAITH.  I do know that I create my own life.  I am able to manifest into my life the things that I need and want, even when it seems that there is no way it can possibly happen. 

So what happens when you find yourself lacking in belief?  How do you rid yourself of the little doubts and fears that tend to creep up into your mind? 

4 Steps to Seeing What You Believe

1. Create a crystal-clear vision.  It is a very important first step in this process.  What exactly do you want.  If what you want constantly changes, how is the universe ever going to bring it to you?  It’s like constantly changing your order at a restaurant.  If you keep changing, your food is never going to come.
2. Eliminate the doubts and fears.  If you find doubt and fear creeping into your mind, acknowledge that you have a belief in place.  This belief is sabotaging your manifesting success.  You need to eliminate this belief. The technique that I like to use with my clients is called EFT.  It completely dissolves negative emotions and beliefs.
3. Let go of the outcome.  I know that this step is hard to do.  You need to stop thinking of HOW your desire is going to manifest.  You don’t know the best way, but the universe does.  Allow the universe to do it’s job.
4. Take action on the opportunities.  I think that this is the step that most people forget.  It is easy to sit on the couch and dream about all of the things that you want.  It is easy to make a vision board and meditate.  BUT, the universe will be bringing you the way for you to have what you want, and you just need to take action.  Step out of your comfort zone and as Nike says, “Just Do It!”

I have this deck of cards sitting here on my desk.  They are “inspiration cards”  by Wayne Dyer.  Sometimes when I feel the need for some guidance, I quiet my mind and ask the universe to give me the message I need to hear. 

This afternoon I did just that.  The card that I pulled says Create That Vision.  I took a few moments to contemplate what that means in my life.  I came to the realization that I am in the process of creating my perfect life.  I needed to hear this in order to keep going.

Sometimes along the way I get bogged down with disappointments or results I wasn’t really hoping for.  The point here is to keep going.  Persistence is the key.  I am creating my vision.  Believing is seeing, not the other way around!

So, my question for you today is this, “What’s your vision?”

Do you have a vision for your life or have you just given up on even wanting something else?  If you have a desire in your heart, it is your soul’s way of showing you that it is time to grow.  What area of your life is ready for a change?

I would love for you to share with me the vision you are working on.  Please leave a comment and tell me your vision.  Do you use a vision board?  Do you practice visualization exercises?    I can’t wait to hear from you.